In the 1980s and 90s, several prominent feminist theorists argued that sexual preferences reflect one’s political commitments. This led to positions such as political lesbianism (refusing sex with men), rejecting any sexual practices seen as reproducing as patriarchy, and opposing all forms of violence in sex, even when consensual.
Over the past two decades, mainstream feminist discourse has actively depoliticised sexual preferences, arguing that any consensual sexual interaction is legitimate. This includes normalising practices like BDSM, kink, rough sex, dom/sub play, porn consumption, and role play